You see, NOBODY TALL & SLENDER (or even height-weight proportionate) EVER WRITES ME! It just doesn't make sense, except that for about 1 1/2 yrs. of the 2 1/2 yrs., it can partially be explained because I had 2 "bad" photos of me on the site. The reason they were "bad" was because the only way CL accepts photos is to compress them, and the pics just didn't look very much like me. If you don't believe me, write me and I will send you 2 recent, very good photos that are not compressed!
I have been looking for a tall, slender, pretty, honest woman who is available. Ok, there were about 4 or 5 tall/slender women in 2 1/2 years on CL that did write me, but there were vast personality differences with 2 of them, two of them didn't like the photo I guess, the "compressed photo", and one of the women did not believe in God. You must understand I do not like to date women who do not believe in God or a higher power.
Honestly, I have only been on a date or had coffee with 3 DIFFERENT WOMEN off of CL in 2 1/2 years!....two of them I did not like in person because they misrepresented what they looked like, and the other one, as I said, we had vast personality differences. But all 3 of them seemed to like me, FYI, for whatever that is worth?
Ok, I admit, and I am not proud of it, that because I have been unable to find the "right woman", I have even posted several times in the "casual encounters" section, usually without a photo, and I had no luck there. I guess there is just too much "men competition" in that section! :) Honestly, I never have had sex with anyone off of Craigslist. The only reason I posted in "casual encounters" because I am "picky" with women, a little "scared" of relationships because I have been in a couple of bad relationships, and I would never want to use a woman just for sex. Most men do that, I don't.
Most women also seem to want a relationship with me if I have sex with them because I guess they see that I am an honest, good person. But I do not want to hurt them. If the woman wants an NSA or FWB relationship, then that's fine, though. I admit, I am sexually frustrated. I wish there was someone out there who could relieve my frustration. :) I have also posted several "Looking for FWB's" on CL, with no luck.
Ok, I'm 38, tall 6'3", told am good-looking, blond/blue, college-educated, professional, honest, romantic, "nice-guy", confident, caring, I do not smoke, D/D free, clean. I am above-avg. "size", for what it is worth. I have been divorced 1 time....she and I had vast cultural/personality differences; I have 1 child who does not live with me. I am a Christian; however, I am not like, the "fundamentalist-type" of Christian.
I am seeking a woman, ages 23-40, for either a long-term relationship; or an NSA or FWB relationship if the other wouldn't work out for us, or if that is all you wanted. Someone D/D free, slender or height-weight proportionate, nice person, 5'7"+ (at least 5'6"), attractive, romantic, children are ok! It has been so hard for me to find a woman with these types of qualities who is available.
Can anybody perhaps shed some light on all of this??? Or is there maybe someone out there who now understands me a little better, who might possibly be interested. We can exchange photos.
If you want to reply, either reply on here or you can send me a message on myspace. My site is www.myspace.com/shotdowneaglelives I do have a FB, but its private and I would have to add you (you wouldnt be able to see it unless I did). my AIM is shotdowneagle2
Trust and honesty are really important to me in relationships. I am usually a laid back guy. I have a good sense of humor.If you have any questions, please ask. Please only real people, no spam.
About me, physically
Short brown hair, brown eyes
5-foot-8, 140 pounds; good build
I am outgoing, I work hard and I have life goals that I know will be achieved with time and patience. I love animals, sports, good conversations, and as much as it pains me to say—learning. There's so much more about me that you might want to know, but let's save that for a future conversation.
If you're in your 30s 40's or 50's, intelligent, have a good sense of humor, attractive and take pride in your appearance, let's talk. I prefer average size women that are close to my own age. I take good care of myself and ask that you do too. This is for fun and pleasure, so the nicer we look and the more we appeal to each other, the better. I'm not a health & fitness nut, but I do have a good build that's better than most other guys my age..... 5'9", 170 lbs., brown hair, blue eyes, professional, educated, well read, well traveled, great sense of humor, and a true gentleman.
I'm seeking that special girl to spend my time with. I'm looking for someone between 23-30 who is just as romantic as I am and can keep up with my personality.
I am for real and you should be too. I dont care about body type or anything superficial except that you be genuine and serious in your reply!
If you are interested i would love to get to know you more and see what transpires. Feel free to ask me questions if you are curious about
this lifestyle or about my ad.
To prove i am genuine and based in Tucson, the university of arizona mechanical engineering building is on Speedway between Campbell and Park.
I’d like to meet an woman who would appreciate an evolved man with his life together and also the time and desire to enjoy it. I am a person who is emotionally secure, with no excuses or promises I cannot keep. I am looking to see where two people could meet and is open to a true and committed relationship, aware of each others as individuals with respect. I would never try to control or change another person. I am someone who is assertive, passionate and knows what he wants, can make eye contact and conversation and believes in sincerity. I would like to meet someone over 35, who is mature and is not into drama and is open to the possibilities that a LTR can bring, if both have a mutual respect, attraction and compatibility each other.
I believe I'm sensual, caring and know who I am and what I want.........I'm a guy.......I like cars and dependable toys, sometimes modifying them as I see the need................ - ..I've never been a fan-atic about watching sports, I admire some athiletes, but don't worship them or want to be with them or be in there shoes......timing and who you're competing with at the time is only random settings....if we all trained for the same thing there would be only nuances between us, not super stars.
I've been fortunate on raising myself to where I am, and also held myself down.............. learning how to be better and happier is a goal, thus the ad that you are reading before you.
Life can be a wonderful experience with a little love.
I'm looking for...
I'm out to find an ambitious yet comfortable, sane, loving, active, positive, tolerant to a point, open minded, friendly, low maintenance, responsible, confident, romantic, smart, flexible, honest, loyal and trustworthy woman.
"I'm not surprised
Not everything lasts
I've broken my heart so many times
I stopped keeping track
Talk myself in
I talk myself out
I get all worked up
Then I let myself down
I tried so very hard not to lose it
I came up with a million excuses
I thought I thought of every possibility
And I know someday that it'll all turn out
You'll make me work so we can work to work it out
And I promise you kid that I'll give so much more than I get
I just haven't met you yet
I might have to wait
I'll never give up
I guess it's half timing
And the other half's luck
Wherever you are
Whenever it's right
You'll come out of nowhere
And into my life
And I know that we can be so amazing
And baby your love is gonna change me
And now I can see every possibility
And somehow I know that it'll all turn out
And you'll make me work so we can work to work it out
And promise you kid I'll give so much more than I get
I just haven't met you yet
They say all's fair in love and war
But I won't need to fight it
We'll get right
And we'll be united
And I know that we can be so amazing
And being in your life is gonna change me
And now I can see every single possibility
And someday I know it'll all turn out
And I'll work to work it out
Promise you kid I'll give more than I get
Than I get
Than I get
Than I get
Oh you know it'll all turn out
And you'll make me work so we can work to work it out
And promise you kid to give so much more than I get
Yeah I just haven't met you yet
I just haven't met you yet
Oh promise you kid to give so much more than I get
(I said love love love love love love love love)
I just haven't met you yet
(Love love love love love love)
Such a good day yeah
I just haven't met you yet"
What about gentleman that open doors, speak respectfully, give genuine love and affection and never introduce you as the "ball and chain?"
I am a single guy. I have my history, but all my baggage has been pretty much been sent off to the landfill. Things creep up every once in a while, but its dealt with, put down and left in the past. Isn't that the way it is supposed to be?
I am 5'8 and weigh about 190 lbs....I carry it well and there is some solidity under the exterior.
I have a dog, she's too smart for her own good, but she keeps me on my toes since I have to stay one step ahead of her at all times. She loves kids, adults, cats and is a generally quiet dog. Get her around chickens though....it's on for her.
I work full time and then some in the health care field. I love my work and interacting with patients and helping them feel better. I also love making a bright spot in someone elses day. If I can make one patient laugh my day is worth it.
I am very optimistic, I can look at a dark cloud that is ominous and threatening and see that it is going to produce life through the water it will drop.
I have no kids of my own, that I am aware of, however; I like kids and interacting with them, wide eyed innocence and wonder about the world around them, don't you wish everything was that new for you again too? I do. But I also relish the lessons life has taught me and know that I am a better man today for everything that has happened.
I am conservative in my political beliefs but do not believe in forcing my opinion down someone elses throat. I enjoy friendly political dialogue but will not engage in a heated dispute...Life is too short for that. I am also a Christian. My walk has taken a stumble and fall .. admittedly, however, I know the path is right there and all I have to do is decide to get back on it, so I prefer a woman who is Christian or open to exploring faith.
I have 2 tattoos. One is a cross with an American flag on one arm, the other is a flaming heart with a black band through it on the other arm. As you get to know me, you will find out that these are representative and meaningful in my life.
I have been told that I have a good sense of humor, though you probably would not have guessed it through the dryness of this ad.
Ok enough about me, here is what I am looking for:
A woman who is not on the run from her pimp, recently out of the asylum or a former axe murderer. Seriously.
Age doesn't matter, neither does looks...yeah right you say? Seriously, I am one of the few guys you will meet who REALLY doesn't care what is on the outside, but rather WHO is on the inside. That being said, character and morality count WAY HIGHER on the scale than anything else.
Be open to different ideas and expressions. I live life by the motto, whatever floats your boat. If its your thing, its your thing, if its my thing, its my thing...in other words we all have our quirks and behaviors, be open to accepting new things and ideas/
Please be emotionally available... this really should go without saying, but you would be genuinely surprised at the responses a man gets from personal ads, as I would be amused and surprised at some of the responses woman get. I am looking for friends first, maybe more later...I am not a one night stand guy, that was for my youth and now I look for quality rather than quantity.
I look forward to hearing from you ladies! Please put Blue in the subject line of your response to me.
I have bright blue eyes and I feel that these are my best trait. My hair is brown/auburn, depending on how much sun I get. So being in the military, you tell me how long my hair is. HA HA HA. I stand 5' 9" and weight 187lbs. I am currently working on losing weight to get to 165 lbs. My body type is athletic muscular. I put on muscle as quick as I can fat. I have also been told that my smile is simply amazing. You have to be the judge of that.
Well I am a little movie buff. I like to watch almost every new movie that come out and I have a very extensive move collection. I think I like to watch scifi the most. My favorite color is purple and black. Weird huh? I like all types of music except for gospel, most jazz, and gansta rap. I love to shoot my guns, go hunting (haven't done since I was 16yr old), drag race (I race a 87 Grand National), ride my motorcyle, cook, work on my house and yard, and love exploring nature.
my turn offs are women that are players and act like thugs. And I dont like women that smoke like a freight train and it is going out of style.
I strongly believe in communication and trust in a relationship. Without those you don't really have a relationship. It should be about giving AND taking. Relationships aren't a one sided thing. It takes two to tango. :)
Long story short...I'm looking for a friend and possible companion in life. I find myself wanting more than what I have (I'm very ambitious). Sure, money is great and all, and I certainly have a good job, but whats money, material things, and happiness without someone to share it with? I'm not looking to rush anything, by any means.
About you/what I'm looking for: I'm looking for someone between 20-30 hwp, (race doesn't matter though I am normally attracted to Latina/Caucasian women), and of course you should be disease free as I am. As I said previous I'm primarily looking for someone with a great personality, sense of humor, stability. I'm not looking for a barbie doll or anything. I'm not shallow, at all. I'd prefer if you had a job and your own car as well, but I'm willing to work with you. >.<
I am a bit of a rambler and I'm typing this from work at that (in a rush). I hope I haven't scared you off with my wall of text. :)
I know most posts don't even get read without a picture, so I'm enclosing a picture in good humor. I don't want my business broadcasted to everyone and their mother, but I don't mind showing some pictures once it's been established you are in fact a real person though. There are a LOT of bots/spammers out there as well, so precaution never hurts. Anyways...I AM a real person. I'm glad they finished the construction on I-10 and Fascinations is an awesome little store. ;)
Well I am a confident guy who likes to have fun whether that be at a party or wherever. Like to laugh and tell jokes, just have a good time with one another. I like to listen to music, travel, sit back/relax, go to the movies, dancing, and watch/play sports (have played them all my life). Family is also important to me. Well, if you would like to get to know me better just reply and we can chat. I am cute if you don't believe me just email me.
Now for the SPAM bit, that we all seem to have to do to stop the junk, I sometimes enjoy a burger at Ruby Tuesday's on Stone. I miss Comp USA sometimes.
Please include the word "Tucson" in your subject line somewhere. I will send a pic when I know you are real.
I don't want a fling or a hookup. i'm happy starting slow.
Here's the deal Breaker for some of you,
I'm still looking for work
No car
and i smoke Cigarettes.
And please don't be Overweight (nothing wrong with a little muffin top but no BBW's please?) nothing against you, just remember i'm 125 pounds myself.
im not looking for support. i could care less for cash or anything like that. if you want someone to support you, don't contact me, because that's low. being in a relationship other than marriage DOES NOT mean you must financially support each other.
Now for the spam bit, that we all seem to have to do to stop the junk, I sometimes enjoy a burger at Ruby Tuesday's on Stone. I miss Comp USA sometimes.
Please include the word "Tucson" in your subject line somewhere.
I want to meet someone that I can actually RELAX around. Not necessarily just as a smoking buddy but a conversation partner, i.e someone who likes to interact with folks and that feels she has a lot to give the world. Go out and do stuff with, hang out with my close friends, things like that. Friends first (with benefits is cool too....lets just be honest about it) and then from there we should see how it goes.
A looooong shot I know. But I've just had enough of sly women trying to get me into a relationship and party chicks who just want a friendly screw every now and again.
If any of this sounds at all good to you, I don't much care what you look like. We should chill. For obvious reasons I can't post my pic here, but just ask. I would also like to see what you look like as well, on the odd chance that you're going to respond to this.
Do you like Sci-fi/Fantasy? I do, you can often find me reading novels such as Conan, Lord of the Rings, Dragonlance, Forgotten Realms and such. I use to be an avid comic book collector back when I was a little guy as well. I am NOT into "fantasy" such as Twilight, but its ok if you are.
Do you like nature and the great outdoors? Although I haven't been able to enjoy them as much as I would like. I love camping, shooting, horseback riding, boating, hiking, biking and all of that.
Do you like video games? I do, and my bad habit is that I play WoW. I know, call me a nerd, but oh well. I also like Madden, and I wasted a lot of my High School days playing Goldeneye.
What kind of music do you like?
What kind of movies do you like?
Do you do drugs? I do not, and YES Marijuana is a drug.
Do you smoke? I don't
Do you like to drink? I do enjoy a good beer with friends in small social settings, I am not really into the loud party or club scene anymore, although I do get the itch every now and then.
Are you "Jesus freak"? I hope not, although I will respect your beliefs, I am not religious, but I do have my own beliefs.
Do you have a car? You should, because I am not a Taxi service.
Do you have a job? You should be able to support yourself, and not depend on me to pay your bills.
Do you like dancing? I recently got into learning ballroom dance. Its pretty challenging and fun.
What about board games? I love to play, but I am tired of being the 3rd wheel (My friends have significant others)
Do you like animals? I do, and have a dog.
Do you have kids? I don't and you shouldn't either. Nothing wrong with kids and single mothers, I like children, but at this point in my life, I am not ready to be a father figure to someone.
Do you keep yourself in shape? You don't have to be perfect, but I take care of myself and you should too. If you are "thick" or a "BBW", there are plenty of guys attracted to that, but I am not.
Well some more about me, I have my own apartment, a real job, and a decent car. I enjoy cooking and I think I am pretty good at it. I don't know if I will be in Tucson forever. I am looking for someone that can be my friend and more. Someone I can get to know, and will know me. To grow with and share the many adventures life will throw our way.
I am tall (6'1), 186 lbs, blond hair, blue eyes (they change colors though). I do wear glasses sometimes :(
If I interest you, send me a message, Include a picture and I will send one back. Or a Myspace.
The only way I know, is the way I am going to go!Others should make their plan!
I won't stop till a make it to the top!
Don't need for someone to understand!
I simply love life and want to find that special someone to enjoy it with.I simply want someone to love me for who I am.I want someone that is different in their own special way!It would be great to find someone that wants to do something in the food and beverage field!I have always dreamed of owning my own restaurant someday and retire and enjoy life!I have been in the Food and beverage industry all my life!I am a Great Chef!
Profession: Restaurant Manager/Property Manager/personal Chef
I am 5'10" tall/about 150lbs.(not heavy at all(I lived in FLA for over 12+years).Hazel eyes and short brown hair/mustache/ 2 tattoos that is not shown!
I may be about 40, but I can party all night long if need bee.
I became a chef at 21 and have helped open 20 different restaurants over the years .I really enjoy watching Chef Gordon Ramsey and Hell's Kitchen,Food network and that Romantic Comedy on Sunday evenings.I also love to prepare romantic dinners for my better half(LOL).(I love to cook and clean)I do not like to Iron!!LOL
I am the type of person who would love to have a BBQ and invite our friends over to enjoy a evening of Food and Fun!
I like to talk and cuddle during movies!!
I love Rock and Roll(KISS) and all kinds of music.I love to go out to eat,concerts,amusement parks,friends,nature,sight seeing,museums,family outings,holidays and Spell Check!!!.
I love to be romantic and treat a girl like a princess, life is to short for all that fighting and dishonesty.
Ways to make a girl smile!!!
1 . Tell her she is beautiful (not fine, or sexy)
2 . Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.
3 . Kiss her on the forehead.
4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
5 . When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.
6 . Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.
7 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.
8 . Write her notes. (she loves them)
9 . Introduce her to family and friends . . . as your girlfriend.
10 . Play with her hair.
11 . Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with her.
12 . Sit in the park and just talk to her.
13 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, or just tell her jokes.
14 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.
15 . If she's mad at you, kiss her.
16 . Give her piggyback rides.
17 . Bring her flowers
18 . Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.
19 . Look her in the eyes and smile.
20 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.
21 . Kiss her in the rain.
22 . If your in love with her . . . tell her.
I love sunsets after a great day.
*Let's not sweat the small stuff*
So lets chat and let life be life and enjoy it all.
Twice 2 b sure!Always keep reaching for your dreams,they can come true!
Fav. Book/Anything by Tom Clancy!
Fav. Music /Classic rock/Hair bands/POP/all kinds
Fav. Band /KISS/The Corrs/M2M/Adam Ant
Fav.Food/Mexican/seafood/BBQ
Fav.Person/Paul Stanley/Sec:Rice/George Bush/Gordon Ramsay
Fav.Place/Anywhere New/Key West.
Fav.Mov/Resident Evil/Tombstone/Serendipity/Walk to remember/
Fav.Song/ Crazy Crazy Nights/KISS
Fav.Song/Don't save me/Marit Larsen
Fav.Song/Give me a reason/The Corrs
Fav. Actress/Actor. Milla Jovovich/Johnny Depp/Clint Eastwood.
I would like to meet a woman who is also beautiful both inside and out. I want to share a world together. I have no children but am very open to someone who does especially since I grew up with 4 brothers and 3 sisters. I live alone on a beautifule ranch with horses, dogs and cats.
I love to ride horses, swim at my house, ride the quads, make custom metal artwork, watch the beautiful sunsets and enjoy romantic dinners. I also enjoy traveling, walking, or watching movies at home. Humor is a must. I make sure the kid in me is alive and kicking at all times.
Well, I’ll end it hear in hopes to find an attractive woman with both in inner spirit and outer beauty.
I’d love to hear from you when you get an opportunity.
Either way, I lead a pretty busy lifestyle and try to stay as connect, social and busy as possible. As far as my extra-curricular activities are concerned, I am an avid reader,
an adrenaline junkie - of sorts -, an active member of various non-profit listservs and and organizing institutes - both of the grassroots and centralized type - and a purported lifelong student. So, if I have piqued any interest, I hope to hear from you soon.
1 I spend every free moment of my time reading.
2 I've never ridden a horse. I've always wanted to.
3 I'm an atheist. I told my mother, and she cried. She said she'd rather I be a murderer
4 I've seen every Audrey Hepburn movie at least three times
5 I'm an alcoholic. I haven't had a drink since 1989.
6 I preferred Sammy Hagar over David Lee Roth. I guess that makes me a poser.
I'm not looking for a super-extreme, life-changing whirlwind romance. I just want a friend and see what happens. Maybe you're in a similar situation. I just want to be email buddies at first and take things slow. If you're not judgmental or you just want to chat, I'm really friendly. I won't bite.
